03-31-2021, 09:55 AM
(03-31-2021, 08:56 AM)baggy1 Wrote: Really tough one Spandau, the simple advice is for the mom to let the girl now that she is there for her and that anytime she needs to have a place to come to her bed is ready and made up. Maybe start arranging some mother / daughter time together now that lockdown has eased or even arrange some group get togethers with the scrote as well. The added complication here will be lockdown and the extra control element that allows him.
My daughter got in with some drug dealing scrote a few years ago and to this day she hasn't told me his name or where he lives because of what he did to her. He finally went too far and she realised that she had to get out and we were there for her to pick up the pieces, luckily there was no long term damage and it was a short lived thing, but he's still on my radar.
My advice is simple - be there for her and start to reintroduce time with her now the lockdown is easing. She will come round and if he does need a talking to there's nothing illegal to having a quiet chat on your own with him.
Having been through a similar situation in our family, I’d agree with this. If you get on to her about what a scum bag the bloke is, it’ll only strengthen her resolve to make it work. She needs to see for herself what an utter cunt he is.