10-06-2025, 09:45 AM
I was out with friends in London on Saturday, who I haven't seen for a while.
Nice enough evening, but then found out my mate's wife, after 4-5 glasses of wine, started a rant about the boats and the 'rapist' in Essex who started the unrest, before then pledging her admiration for Farage.
My wife and I stayed quiet, whilst the other couple joined in agreeing with her.
My wife was going to say that the guy in Essex was not a rapist, but simply someone who touched a girl on the knee and this is normal enough stuff inappropriate uncomfortable stuff that had been blown out of proportion for political twisting.
However, she stayed silent and we just ushered the chat on elsewhere.
On returning to our room we chatted about the incident and said, despite us being anything but left wing we feel it's impossible to talk to these Reform types to point out any incorrect facts etc. If we'd have said anything we'd be labelled left wing and against their man.
Equally the other lad in our party was expressing amazement that a mutual friend has cut off an American pal for very pro Trump views.
I didn't bother pointing out perhaps he thinks someone who holds such views is a complete arsehole.
It seems now the freedom of speech seems very one sided where idiotic lies and hatred seem to be the accepted by a certain demographic, with anyone even remotely liberal trying to talk reason as some left wing idealist.
I just feel anything other than silence with these friends on politics would have not helped the social occasion. I'm sure it wasn't like this 10 years ago.
Very uncomfortable times.
Nice enough evening, but then found out my mate's wife, after 4-5 glasses of wine, started a rant about the boats and the 'rapist' in Essex who started the unrest, before then pledging her admiration for Farage.
My wife and I stayed quiet, whilst the other couple joined in agreeing with her.
My wife was going to say that the guy in Essex was not a rapist, but simply someone who touched a girl on the knee and this is normal enough stuff inappropriate uncomfortable stuff that had been blown out of proportion for political twisting.
However, she stayed silent and we just ushered the chat on elsewhere.
On returning to our room we chatted about the incident and said, despite us being anything but left wing we feel it's impossible to talk to these Reform types to point out any incorrect facts etc. If we'd have said anything we'd be labelled left wing and against their man.
Equally the other lad in our party was expressing amazement that a mutual friend has cut off an American pal for very pro Trump views.
I didn't bother pointing out perhaps he thinks someone who holds such views is a complete arsehole.
It seems now the freedom of speech seems very one sided where idiotic lies and hatred seem to be the accepted by a certain demographic, with anyone even remotely liberal trying to talk reason as some left wing idealist.
I just feel anything other than silence with these friends on politics would have not helped the social occasion. I'm sure it wasn't like this 10 years ago.
Very uncomfortable times.


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