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For instance can it be possible not to agree with gay parenting and not be homophobic?  I would say it is. It doesn't mean you hate gays, but just don't agree that two men raising a child off a surrogate mother is great for the kid and its identity.

Ok, lets take this as an example and expand it, in a reasonable debate manner.

What would you feel the difference is between and male-female couple raising a child from a surrogate mother and a male-male couple?

It appears that it is because you feel the kid and it's identity is not going to be as well off in the mm scenario as opposed to the mf situation. Now, and this is a conclusion that I have assumed from your point, that you feel that having two Dad's will encourage the child to think of that as 'normal' which, again I am assuming, you feel isn't normal. 

Now from that I can assume that you don't consider two men together as normal which is homophobic. Because without knowing any facts in the two Dad scenario apart from them being two men you feel it is wrong, or more to the point different to you.

This is hypothetical. I actually think it is ok for gay parenting. The point was made to illustrate how loaded debates are these days- debates we could have had a while ago.