03-13-2021, 01:22 PM
I got as far as “Amanda Holden’s bum” and the immediately went to Google it. I’m part of the problem.
society has "just accepted" dead women as "one of those things".
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03-13-2021, 01:22 PM
I got as far as “Amanda Holden’s bum” and the immediately went to Google it. I’m part of the problem.
03-13-2021, 01:28 PM
Not at all Birdmon.
03-13-2021, 01:30 PM
Great posts hawks
03-13-2021, 02:12 PM
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I'm struggling to see the point behind this 'great post' other than "social meeja bad"?
The fact that there are lots of other things wrong with modern society doesn't mean people shouldn't at least try to asses their attitudes and address the systemic, ingrained misogyny that many on here seem to think isn't an issue. This comes across as a deflection to me to be honest. "society is terrible so why bother"
03-13-2021, 02:17 PM
Looking at this, I miss away games. Even fucking Croydon.
03-13-2021, 02:24 PM
(03-13-2021, 02:12 PM)ChamonixBaggie Wrote: I'm struggling to see the point behind this 'great post' other than "social meeja bad"? The post wasn’t intended to excuse misogyny. Lots of tings is bad, including misogyny itself. You don’t know me yet you are labelling me a misogynist for examining society more? Its point was that shouting about it after the event in extreme fashion on social media/via 24-hour news isn’t going to help much, when the root causes of a lot of inequalities in life - including misogyny - run far deeper. Sorry that that is lost on you. Like many things it’s a complex issue, and no ‘deflection’ was intended. Just all part of the discussion.
03-13-2021, 02:30 PM
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(03-13-2021, 02:24 PM)HawkingsHalfpint Wrote:(03-13-2021, 02:12 PM)ChamonixBaggie Wrote: I'm struggling to see the point behind this 'great post' other than "social meeja bad"? Point of order - I haven't labelled you anything? I disagree that the coverage this issue is recently receiving both on traditional media and via social media isn't going to help much. If it encourages any men at all to examine their own attitudes towards harassment, cat calling, predatory or inappropriate behaviour then it has helped. I am personally much more aware of the things I can do to make women more comfortable and feel safer following several posts my female friends have shared recently. And I don't think I'm a misogynist any more than you are. Of course misogyny is a complex issue but education (especially around consent, and what constitutes harassment/assault), delivered via social media or otherwise, is an extremely helpful tool to combat the issue of violence against women.
03-13-2021, 02:44 PM
Suggesting I was guilty of deflection implies an ignorance or an excusing of misogyny, does it not?
Anyway, that’s besides the point. I’m all for creating a better and more accepting, sensible, honest and above all equal society. However, two recent stories (this week alone) have exhibited exactly how ridiculous these debates can become, with some senior political and media figureheads at the centre of both. Such juxtaposition encourages people to either take an extreme viewpoint, or disengage from the issue altogether. Both of which scenarios do more harm than good. The solution and its discussion is a tough balance to strike. Many creeds practiced in this country actively preach misogyny, yet their doctrine is respected. Boardrooms are still majority male-populated, women still are sadly paid less than men, and progress is slower than it should be. Doesn’t change the fact that there are greater influences at large in society that give rise to the type of horrendous crime witnessed this week, by a very unlikely perpetrator. Safely walking the streets should be a right enjoyed by all, particularly women. If we can debate that in the media without degenerating to talk of women remaining indoors after dark and-or curfews for men, great. But sadly we can’t.
03-13-2021, 03:47 PM
(03-13-2021, 12:10 PM)HawkingsHalfpint Wrote: The same society that ‘accepts dead women’ as ‘one of those things’ is the same society that: Excellent post
03-13-2021, 05:35 PM
I feel like we're getting a bit off-topic here.
According to the Counting Dead Women campaign in 2019 in the UK, 116 women were killed by men. That's around one woman dying every three days. That is not rare. We know that both victims and killers came from all walks of life. The men who do this aren't all social outcasts, incapable of holding down a job or having families. Many of them appear completely ordinary. However, what lots of them do have is long histories of violence against women. Society has made big progress in terms of recognising domestic violence as wrong (btw it wasn't considered a crime to rape your wife in the UK until 1991), but we clearly have some way to go. I guarantee all of you will have encountered or know a man who is, for want of a better word, "dodgy" towards women and not just in a bantering way either. And rather than talk of curfews and such, we need to be thinking about how we challenge these men. I agree that some of it starts from a young age in education for youngsters, but it is something we need to be aware of throughout our lives. |
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